| Be prepared. If you are especially serious in finding "the | | | | serious in your dating. If you are doing it just for fun |
| one" then determine what are you looking for ... | | | | then don't take dating too seriously. Be very truthful in |
| qualities, behavior, and physical appearance. If | | | | assessing your dating goals. |
| necessary, do some research and have yourself | | | | Be confident. With the first four steps you can boost |
| ready for dating. There will be some ups and downs in | | | | your confidence level - now is the time to maintain it. |
| dating so don't take it too seriously. | | | | Try to avoid things that will affect your coolness |
| Look good but be yourself. If you think its time to | | | | especially negative feedbacks from other people. |
| throw out those old pair of jeans and those rugged | | | | Make sure to be present at the right type of social |
| looking sweaters then be it - go shopping for new one. | | | | function depending on your dating goal. |
| Treating yourself a new wardrobe for a whole new | | | | Be realistic. Decide on someone that you know you |
| look is a good start, just remember to choose | | | | can date - don't aim too high or too low but do aim |
| something that will flatter yourself and not something | | | | reasonably. Base your dating on the whole package |
| that can make you feel and look ridiculous. | | | | that you project and the type of personality you state. |
| Look good and feel good. Looking good doesn't only | | | | Go outdoors. Of course you can't find a dating partner |
| depends on what you're wearing but how you feel | | | | inside the house so let yourself out and be discovered. |
| inside. Start a scheme that will make you feel your | | | | Join some clubs and organizations, attend social |
| best, try reading some health and fitness magazine, | | | | gatherings and sporting events. Explore and be |
| enroll in a gym if necessary, get an overall treatment in | | | | explored. |
| a spa, or a new haircut. This will not give you a date in | | | | Be a little too private. Don't expose yourself at once on |
| one click but it will definitely boost your confidence in | | | | first date - putting in some mystery and vagueness will |
| finding one. | | | | give thrill to the dating process. Sleeping with your date |
| Have a goal. Ask and assess yourself on what is your | | | | in the getting-to-know-you stage will left you nothing to |
| goal in dating - if you are looking for someone to | | | | offer and most likely potential love isn't going to |
| marry in two years time then act accordingly; be | | | | blossom. |