Tongue Tied - Black Men Speaking In A White World

"He is a light-skinned African-American with no Negroprofessional environment. In fact, many Hispanic
dialect, unless he wants to have one."professionals are hired because of their ability to
These were the puzzling words of Senator Harrycommunicate with those who speak the language.
Reid who made the statement in reference toDialect is language; a variety of language used by the
President Obama. They invoked a staunch reactionmembers of a group as a manner or means of
from blacks, and caused an uproar in some politicalexpressing oneself. It is distinguished by features of
circles. Was it a malicious remark? Or was it an anvocabulary, grammar, and pronunciation. English is the
innocuous statement taken out of context?world's language. It balances our linguistic differences.
Harry Reid said it was a compliment. But what was heTo infer a preference for an African American "with
complimenting? The fact that Obama is special? Orno Negro dialect" illustrates prejudice at best, and
that he is special because he does not use theignorance at worst. It's the equivalent of saying you
stereotypical parlance associated with most blackprefer Hispanics who don't speak Spanish so that
men?you are not reminded that they are different from you.
Language has always been a measure of socialBeing tongue-tied (i.e. unable or disinclined to speak
status, educational level, and intellectual ability for men.freely) is nothing new to black men. We have to
Slave owners actually preferred slaves who lackedchoose our words felicitously to make white men
communication skills because they were less likely tocomfortable because we don't want them wondering
organize revolts.if we talk "like the rest of them."
It's no wonder: strong communication skills are inherentSpeaking with the "Negro dialect" that we grew up
to all leaders. Slaves that were referred to as "fieldwith is natural to black men; using "no Negro dialect" is
Negros" were only required to work with their hands;unnatural, but can be done. Failure to do so can derail a
doing laborious work outside the plantation. Housecareer. Most successful black men are taught, or learn
Negros were generally viewed as being smarter, lessfrom experience, when it behooves them to be
threatening, and having better communication skills.tongue-tied.
They were usually descendants of slave owners, andThe burden of "speaking white" (which many whites
as a result, were light-skinned.arrogantly refer to as "proper English") is a challenge
It's not surprising that there are still whites (and whitefor many black men. They liken it to learning and
men in particular) who feel more comfortable withbecoming fluid in a foreign language. Both are achieved
light-skinned black males in a professional officewith focus and consistent practice. And when
environment. Any prolonged observation ofit's achieved, you get to impress an ignoramus like
America's various workforces reveal this truth.   TheSenator Harry Reid who clearly has a checklist of
plight of the house Negro and the field Negro persists.attributes that black men must have to make him feel
Language often divides them more than skin tone.comfortable.
Harry Reid's comments were not offensive; they wereWhile more and more black men understand and
insightful. If the media would have taken the time toreluctantly accept the conditions of our integration into
place his comment in its proper historical context, athe workplace, we can only refrain from using "no
valuable educational opportunity could have been hadNegro dialect" for so long. It comes out eventually -
for both whites and blacks. Instead, the commentusually when our white male colleagues become
merely serves as a vivid reminder that times change,comfortable with us and use some form of Negro
but perceptions remain the same.dialect themselves in an effort to "bond" with us. This
Having good communication skills affords anusually takes place during conversations about
advantage in business (and in life) to all men. For blacknon-work related issues, such as sports.
men it's especially true. Good verbal communicationEven when we remove (or think we are allowed to
skills enable us to penetrate the circles where greaterremove) the bonds from which our tongues are tied,
opportunities reside.they are never truly unleashed. We can be liberal in
President Obama is exceptional as a black maleexpressing ourselves, but a black man with no tongue
communicator, and extraordinary as a communicator.restraint is a black man who becomes a target for
This is what enabled him to distinguish himself. Whensilencing - no matter what arena he is in.
his presidency is over, his prowess as an orator will beMartin Luther King and Malcolm X had very different
his true legacy.dialects. Still, both suffered the same fate because
For non-presidential black males, the stigma of beingthey expressed themselves with unprecedented
inarticulate is dissipating, but we will, seemingly, foreverfreedom. There have been no black men since - not
walk the fine, tenuous line between being effectiveeven Obama - who were less tongue-tied than them.
communicators, and using "no Negro" dialect...unless weSo it remains, black men must still be discriminant about
want to.where, and to whom, we vent. And when we do, we
The reality is that every culture has its own dialect. No"keep it real" - privately if not publicly - by using the full
one questions the use of Spanish by Hispanics in aspectrum of "Negro dialects" because we want to.